{"id":859,"date":"2012-10-04T21:20:21","date_gmt":"2012-10-05T03:20:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/?p=859"},"modified":"2012-10-04T21:20:21","modified_gmt":"2012-10-05T03:20:21","slug":"emerging-from-the-fog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/2012\/10\/04\/emerging-from-the-fog\/","title":{"rendered":"Emerging from the Fog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is the term someone used recently in describing what it&#8217;s like about a month after the second baby is born and you start to return to reality and normal life. \u00a0I have to be honest, we are not even close to emerging from the fog. \u00a0We are in the midst of it with close to zero visibility. \u00a0I am tired, can&#8217;t think straight and haven&#8217;t washed my hair in 5 days. \u00a0Can&#8217;t believe I just admitted that. \u00a0This is life with two kids under two! \u00a0But it&#8217;s only temporary. \u00a0At least that&#8217;s what people keep telling me.<\/p>\n<p>At the moment I am writing this sweet Betsy is fast asleep (something I don&#8217;t think will last much longer) and Carson is eating lunch which consists of chicken nuggets, strawberries, cheese and fritos&#8230;and ketchup of course. \u00a0Here he is finishing it up. \u00a0The kid loves ketchup. \u00a0He even dips his strawberries in it and asked for it when I told him we were having chicken nuggets for lunch.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/fritos.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-870\" title=\"fritos\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/fritos.jpg?resize=392%2C470\" alt=\"\" width=\"392\" height=\"470\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/fritos.jpg?w=392 392w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/fritos.jpg?w=250 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 392px) 100vw, 392px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>He also loves french fries. \u00a0We drove through a Starbucks on Sunday and he started saying, &#8220;Fries? Fries?&#8221;. \u00a0Does that mean I&#8217;m a bad mom? \u00a0Sometimes we base our restaurant decision on whether or not they have fries&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Carson has been a great big brother so far. \u00a0As much as any 2 year old can be, I guess. \u00a0We are still learning what &#8220;gentle&#8221; means. \u00a0There have been a few times where he starts out really sweetly touching her feet or patting her head and then right when I kind of relax he&#8217;ll do something that is less than gentle. \u00a0When I&#8217;m nursing he wants to climb all over us. \u00a0But nothing he&#8217;s done has been at all mean. \u00a0He thinks she&#8217;s funny (even when she&#8217;s crying) and calls her cute. \u00a0He gives her kisses on the head which totally warms my heart. \u00a0He tries to give her &#8220;five&#8221;. \u00a0I know he&#8217;ll be excited when she can actually do it! \u00a0When she cries he gets this concerned look and says &#8220;Baby crying.&#8221; \u00a0and then goes to check on her.<\/p>\n<p>They both have those Aden and Anais blankets and at first he would try to pull hers off of her, but we have now established that some blankets are Betsy&#8217;s and some are Carson&#8217;s. \u00a0I just have to make sure we&#8217;ve remembered to bring one of his blankets downstairs so that he&#8217;ll have one of his own. \u00a0If he doesn&#8217;t have one he gets a little upset and continues to ask for a blanket (which sounds like he&#8217;s saying &#8220;bacon&#8221;) until he gets one. \u00a0At first I tried to keep his boy blankets (monkey, elephant, etc.) just for him and her pink blankets just for her, but there have been times when Carson is carrying around a pink polka dot blanket and that is just fine with me. \u00a0If no one is crying, almost anything is just fine with me.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-868\" title=\"hands\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands.jpg?resize=493%2C494\" alt=\"\" width=\"493\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands.jpg?w=493 493w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands.jpg?w=300 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 493px) 100vw, 493px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/bigbrother.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-862\" title=\"bigbrother\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/bigbrother.jpg?resize=491%2C493\" alt=\"\" width=\"491\" height=\"493\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/bigbrother.jpg?w=491 491w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/bigbrother.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/bigbrother.jpg?w=298 298w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 491px) 100vw, 491px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>He is my comedic relief on hard days and provides some consistency in the middle of an inconsistent life. \u00a0I have no clue what Betsy is going to do each day. \u00a0Cry all day, sleep all day, sleep for 5 hours at night, wake up every 3 hours at night, go through 3 outfits or 1 in one day, take a pacifier, not take a pacifier? \u00a0Carson wakes at 7 (or so) eats breakfast, plays, has a snack around 10:30, plays, lunch around 12, plays, naps at 1, wakes up around 4, play, dinner at 5, bath, milk and umizoomi, sleep around 7. \u00a0He is hilarious. \u00a0His vocabulary is growing every day and it&#8217;s so fun to see him learn. \u00a0This is a really fun time with him.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/sillyboy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-860\" title=\"sillyboy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/sillyboy.jpg?resize=494%2C492\" alt=\"\" width=\"494\" height=\"492\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/sillyboy.jpg?w=494 494w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/sillyboy.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/sillyboy.jpg?w=300 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 494px) 100vw, 494px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>This picture just makes me happy.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\u00a0One of the great things about our neighborhood is the parks. \u00a0There are 2 that are both really close to us. \u00a0Since the weather is cooling off a little we&#8217;re going more often. \u00a0It&#8217;s so good for Carson to get out some energy and good for me to get some exercise!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/slide.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-865\" title=\"slide\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/slide.jpg?resize=495%2C599\" alt=\"\" width=\"495\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/slide.jpg?w=495 495w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/slide.jpg?w=247 247w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 495px) 100vw, 495px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">On<em> the slide with Daddy.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-864\" title=\"park2\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park2.jpg?resize=592%2C440\" alt=\"\" width=\"592\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park2.jpg?w=592 592w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park2.jpg?w=300 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 592px) 100vw, 592px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<em>On the playground.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/coke.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-872\" title=\"coke\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/coke.jpg?resize=390%2C524\" alt=\"\" width=\"390\" height=\"524\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/coke.jpg?w=390 390w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/coke.jpg?w=223 223w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 390px) 100vw, 390px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Stealing cokes.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-871\" title=\"park\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park.jpg?resize=490%2C492\" alt=\"\" width=\"490\" height=\"492\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park.jpg?w=490 490w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/park.jpg?w=298 298w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 490px) 100vw, 490px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Being silly. \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">He was actually very sad about this door being locked. \u00a0He kept saying, &#8220;Open!&#8221; and then would get this sad look on his face, shake his head and say, &#8220;No. Locked.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/puddle.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-869\" title=\"puddle\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/puddle.jpg?resize=392%2C527\" alt=\"\" width=\"392\" height=\"527\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/puddle.jpg?w=392 392w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/puddle.jpg?w=223 223w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 392px) 100vw, 392px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Loves water puddles.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/cleaning.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-866\" title=\"cleaning\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/cleaning.jpg?resize=394%2C517\" alt=\"\" width=\"394\" height=\"517\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/cleaning.jpg?w=394 394w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/cleaning.jpg?w=228 228w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 394px) 100vw, 394px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>He likes to help clean.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/truck.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-861\" title=\"truck\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/truck.jpg?resize=390%2C529\" alt=\"\" width=\"390\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/truck.jpg?w=390 390w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/truck.jpg?w=221 221w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 390px) 100vw, 390px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Loves all things with wheels.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/newtable.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-863\" title=\"newtable\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/newtable.jpg?resize=493%2C495\" alt=\"\" width=\"493\" height=\"495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/newtable.jpg?w=493 493w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/newtable.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/newtable.jpg?w=298 298w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 493px) 100vw, 493px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Eats breakfast at his &#8220;tablechairs&#8221;. \u00a0Yes, all one word.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-867\" title=\"hands2\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/babyz.hottie-biscotti.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands2.jpg?resize=479%2C479\" alt=\"\" width=\"479\" height=\"479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands2.jpg?w=479 479w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands2.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.hottie-biscotti.com\/babyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands2.jpg?w=300 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 479px) 100vw, 479px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I love these sweet moments. \u00a0He won&#8217;t always be willing to sit and hold my hand, so I want to make sure I take the opportunities to do it even when it means I don&#8217;t get a chance to empty the dishwasher or 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